When we practice generating compassion, we can expect to experience our fear of pain. Compassion practice is daring. It involves learning to relax and allow ourselves to move gently toward what scares us. The trick to doing this is to stay with emotional distress without tightening into aversion, to let fear soften us rather than harden into resistance.
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- But all the time our warmth and brilliance are right here. This is who we really are. We are one blink of an eye away from being fully awake. β¨ Pema Chodron (2008). The Pocket Pema Chodron, p.3, Sham β¦ βΆ
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